Handjob - Handjob Techniques

With Lube

1.

Hold his cock upright and slowly draw your lubed palm in circles around the head, paying special attention to the underside (the glans). This one also works without lube.
2.

Make your fingers into a "duck" and slide them up and down over the head -- not unlike a Come Cup.
3.

Hold his shaft with both hands (if possible). Gripping gently with lots of lube, twist each hand in opposite directions around his shaft. This one feels incredible with lube but it is not recommended without lube -- remember getting "rope burn" on the playground, where someone twists his or her hands in opposite directions around your forearm? Ouch.
4.

Put one hand around his shaft so that your thumb rests on the glans (the underside of the head). Work your thumb up and down on his glans. You're barely making any movement here, but it's on the most sensitive part of his penis.
5.

Since you're just using one hand in the above technique, you can use that technique with this one: Grasp his balls while you're stroking his cock -- many men like the sensation of gentle tugging on their family jewels (and, for some men, not so gentle). Holding his balls will give you a better grip and add some sensation to his experience. 

Bonus technique to maximize the use of lube: Stroke one hand from the base of his cock to the head, and just as you're sliding it off the head, stroke with the other hand starting at his base. Repeat this over and over again, alternating hands. This is an intense technique that may well bring him to orgasm -- or could just be a fabulous tease.

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Without (or With) Lube

1. Here's the old classic: Wrap your hand around the middle of his shaft and stroke up and down. This can work with lube, but without lube, it offers an intense, rhythmic sensation that many men use in their private masturbation sessions to bring themselves off as quickly as possible. Now you know his secret.

2. Wrap your hand around his head so that you're covering it. Now squeeze rhythmically, like you're squeezing one of those cushy stress-balls. Don't crush him (unless he likes that sort of thing). This will also work with lube, though the resulting sensation will be somewhat different.

3. Hold his cock upright with one hand and, touching him very, very gently with the other, run your fingertips up and down his cock from his glans to about the midpoint of his shaft. Essentially, you're tickling him. Depending on how sensitive he is, he'll either love or hate this. This technique works better if you don't have long fingernails, and is also dandy with lube.

4. Perform #3 on the "With Lube" list, but -- and this is important -- do it while barely touching him. He may love the sensation, in which case you can try it a little harder, but don't twist his cock too enthusiastically until you're sure you can do it without hurting him.

5. Use your forearms! While even the softest hands among us have ridges, fingerprints and folds, the skin on the underside of your arms is usually very smooth. Rubbing that skin against his glans while holding his cock still with your other hand provides a new and different sensation. This also works great with lube.

A few advanced techniques: The GV Massage Bar (oil-based) melts into a thick, non-drippy oil perfect for stroking any part of the anatomy, and the GV Massage Candle (oil-based) allows you to give handjobs with heated-lotion lube. (thanks to GV Magazine editor Violet Blue for this extra-special tip). Motion Lotion is edible and gets hot when you blow on it, which, I have it on good authority, makes for some interesting sensations on the male member.

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