Handjob
- Handjob
Techniques
With Lube
1.
Hold his cock upright and slowly draw your
lubed palm in circles around the head,
paying special attention to the underside
(the glans). This one also works without
lube.
2.
Make your fingers into a "duck"
and slide them up and down over the head --
not unlike a Come Cup.
3.
Hold his shaft with both hands (if
possible). Gripping gently with lots of
lube, twist each hand in opposite directions
around his shaft. This one feels incredible
with lube but it is not recommended without
lube -- remember getting "rope
burn" on the playground, where someone
twists his or her hands in opposite
directions around your forearm? Ouch.
4.
Put one hand around his shaft so that your
thumb rests on the glans (the underside of
the head). Work your thumb up and down on
his glans. You're barely making any movement
here, but it's on the most sensitive part of
his penis.
5.
Since you're just using one hand in the
above technique, you can use that technique
with this one: Grasp his balls while you're
stroking his cock -- many men like the
sensation of gentle tugging on their family
jewels (and, for some men, not so gentle).
Holding his balls will give you a better
grip and add some sensation to his
experience.
Bonus technique to maximize the use of lube:
Stroke one hand from the base of his cock to
the head, and just as you're sliding it off
the head, stroke with the other hand
starting at his base. Repeat this over and
over again, alternating hands. This is an
intense technique that may well bring him to
orgasm -- or could just be a fabulous tease.
Without
(or With) Lube
1. Here's the old classic: Wrap your hand
around the middle of his shaft and stroke up
and down. This can work with lube, but
without lube, it offers an intense, rhythmic
sensation that many men use in their private
masturbation sessions to bring themselves
off as quickly as possible. Now you know his
secret.
2. Wrap your hand around his head so that
you're covering it. Now squeeze
rhythmically, like you're squeezing one of
those cushy stress-balls. Don't crush him
(unless he likes that sort of thing). This
will also work with lube, though the
resulting sensation will be somewhat
different.
3. Hold his cock upright with one hand and,
touching him very, very gently with the
other, run your fingertips up and down his
cock from his glans to about the midpoint of
his shaft. Essentially, you're tickling him.
Depending on how sensitive he is, he'll
either love or hate this. This technique
works better if you don't have long
fingernails, and is also dandy with lube.
4. Perform #3 on the "With Lube"
list, but -- and this is important -- do it
while barely touching him. He may love the
sensation, in which case you can try it a
little harder, but don't twist his cock too
enthusiastically until you're sure you can
do it without hurting him.
5. Use your forearms! While even the softest
hands among us have ridges, fingerprints and
folds, the skin on the underside of your
arms is usually very smooth. Rubbing that
skin against his glans while holding his
cock still with your other hand provides a
new and different sensation. This also works
great with lube.
A few advanced techniques: The GV Massage
Bar (oil-based) melts into a thick,
non-drippy oil perfect for stroking any part
of the anatomy, and the GV Massage Candle
(oil-based) allows you to give handjobs with
heated-lotion lube. (thanks to GV Magazine
editor Violet Blue for this extra-special
tip). Motion Lotion is edible and gets hot
when you blow on it, which, I have it on
good authority, makes for some interesting
sensations on the male member.
For further reading on this exciting topic,
try The Kama Sutra of Erotic Massage, and
The Joy of Erotic Massage on VHS and DVD
offers some stimulating viewing.
Happy handjobs!
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