Handjob
- Handjob
Techniques
Second, and most important: Lube, or lack
thereof, will determine what you can and
can't do with a handjob. So, to an extent,
will latex gloves, which you might want to
use if you're not fluid-bonded with your
partner and/or don't know his HIV/STD/virus
status; if he comes on your hand, cuts in
your hand or hangnails could transmit HIV.
Accordingly, if he has other sexually
transmitted infections, your hands can carry
bacteria containing infections such as
herpes (if he's experiencing an outbreak),
gonorrhea, syphilis and possibly HPV to
other membranes (like your genitals, eyes,
mouth or nose). Latex gloves are also great
to keep your hands clean; you can just peel
them off and you're ready for your piano
recital.
Spit makes a lousy lube; it will help in a
pinch, but if you want to subject him to the
kind of brain-bursting sensations the
handjob can truly offer, you'll need
something like Astroglide, Good
Lubrications, Liquid Silk, Probe or the
like. Thinner, water-based lubes and
especially silicone lubes like Eros and Wet
tend to be better for handjobs in my
experience, and are easier to clean up since
they wash away with water.
Some men like oil-based lubes like Men's
Cream and Boy Butter. They are thicker and
slicker, pretty much don't ever lose their
slipperiness, and they're much, much more
work to clean up. I personally find them way
too much trouble; after using oil-based
lubes, my male partners have reported
literally spending a whole day with slimy
privates despite repeated showers and
scrubbing.
But the sensations that oil-based lubes
provide are definitely a little different --
warmer, slipperier and non-tacky, which is
why silicone lube (which closely mimics oil)
is a great. Oil based lubes are also not
compatible with latex, so if you plan to
slip a condom on him in the next, oh, day or
so, don't use them. They will also degrade
your latex glove -- that is, they'll eat
holes in it, undermining the whole reason
you put them on in the first place.
Now,
we get to the "meat" -- pun
intended. When giving a handjob, here are
five things you can do with lube and five
without lube. I should note that these are
particularly adapted for circumcised men;
for men with foreskins, the architecture
will be a little different. Pull his
foreskin back before starting the handjob,
and you'll expose the head, the most
sensitive part, allowing you to use all
these techniques flawlessly.
There's no need to pick one -- mix and match
these techniques. And remember that most men
need a steady onslaught of repetitive
sensation to reach orgasm, so if you mix and
match you'll tease him longer. If you want
him to come, stick to one thing or use the
tried-and-true #1 "without lube"
technique, whether or not you've got lube.
Pay attention to his reactions as you try
these techniques: Not all guys will like all
of these. His pleasure (and your own) will
determine what works and what doesn't.
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