Handjob
- Handjob
Techniques
In sex education, porn and locker-room talk, fellatio certainly gets its due -- but what about the humble handjob? Oral sex has an intimacy that, for many, even surpasses intercourse. But a handjob, to this day, has a reputation as second-best, or more like third-best, the sort of furtive action that occurs in back seats and in sleazy theaters when the giver is unwilling to offer "more."
Well, whether you own a set of male genitalia or just like playing with them (or both), I'm here to tell you that a handjob can be one of the most mind-blowing sexual experiences there is. The extreme flexibility of the hands, coupled with the fact that there are two of them (who decided humans would have only one mouth, anyway?) makes the handjob a realm of infinite possibilities. Best of all, handjobs can be combined in liberal quantities with any number of other activities -- anal play, fellatio, dirty talk, spanking, you name it.
To get us started on the handjob frontier, I'll offer a few salient points and then five concrete suggestions for strokes and techniques you can use with lube, and five without lube.
First: If you can't get over the cultural idea that a handjob is a furtive act offered as second best when a blowjob is out of the question, then work with that. A "furtive" handjob can be part of a naughty fantasy, given in a porn theater, back seat, classroom, locker room -- all real or imagined. And as far as a handjob being "second best," well, that lends itself to any number of scenarios of tease and denial. A handjob allows you to vary the sensation he's receiving from the lightest tickle to the most intense stroke. Add that to the fact that many men find it relatively difficult to come from a handjob, and you can have hours of teasing fun. Whether he's begging you for "more" by the end, or he's perfectly satisfied with your jerking him off -- or he doesn't come at all, in common outcome of the denial fantasy -- the handjob can send him into the stratosphere.
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